Pitfalls of dating a widower
I just read your book “Why He Disappeared” and really appreciated the great info.
I have not “lost” the guy I’ve been dating for the past 3 months, but I need to fix some of the mistakes I was starting to make. and 1 in Oct.) when we saw each other on Saturday and Sunday (but no sleepover) we have only seen each other once a week.
Widowers are QUICK to rebound, to a point of being unseemly.
The silence of the phone can feel like the bars of this prison.
Safe, yet in danger Being in love creates a sense of safety, yet the foundation for this safety feels, at it’s core, shaky.
If you weren’t providing an escape from another relationship, would he still want you?
Intimate, but isolated You have a wonderful newfound closeness with this man that you may not have had for a very long time.You know what a widower’s left with when his wife dies? A man’s inability to survive without a woman is a big explanation why a widower is often a very hot ticket on the open market – he’s LOOKING to be married again. But, at a certain point, a man has to step up and give you a reasonable amount of attention and comfort.